Applying
Sideways
How to get in to MIT.
Every fall, like leaves
tumbling exhausted from branches, admissions officers follow the winds to the
corners of the country to talk to students and hawk their school.
I
recently returned from my travel, which took me from Raleigh, North Carolina to
Atlanta, Georgia and a dozen places in between over the course of a few days. I
visited big high schools and small high schools, cities and villages, and
performed what amounted to a thousand-person MIT revival in an Atlanta
auditorium.
Whenever
I speak to students or their families, be it on travel or during a campus
information session, without fail I am asked the same question.
This question may take
many forms. What is it that you look for in an applicant?, some
say. What makes someone stand out in your pool?, others ask.
But
these variants – and countless others – are all just versions of the same
question, which is this:
How do I get in to MIT?
And
here is what I tell them:
Apply sideways.
Let
me unpack that.
When folks ask me this
question, it is generally because they want to come to MIT, and they want me to
tell them something they can do that will get them in. Maybe they need to be an
Eagle Scout with a 4.0. Or a drum major with a 2400. Maybe they need to solve
an open math problem or cure cancer before graduating high school. Just
tell me what I need to do, their eyes implore, and I will attack
each line item on the list like Ray Lewis cleaning a wideout’s clock on a slant
route over the middle.
Terrifying? Yes. Required to be accepted to MIT? No.
But
it doesn’t work that way.
Because
here’s what you need to understand:
There is nothing,
literally nothing, that in and of itself will get you in to MIT.
For
example:
A
few years ago, we did not admit a student who had created a fully-functional
nuclear reactor in his garage.
Think
about that for a second.
Now, most students, when
I tell them this story, become depressed. After all, if the kid who built
a freakin’ nuclear reactor didn’t get in to MIT, what chance
do they have?
But they have it
backwards. In fact, this story should be incredibly encouraging for
most students. It should be liberating. Why? Because over a
thousand other students wereadmitted to MIT that year, and none of
them built a nuclear reactor!
I
don’t mean to discourage anything from pursuing incredible science and
technology research on their own. If you want to do it, DO IT. But don’t do it
because you think it’s your ticket to MIT. And that applies to everything you
do – classes, SATs, extracurriculars.
There
is no golden ticket.
So
breathe.
Now
that you are Zen calm, liberated from the pressures of not having cured cancer
by your 18th birthday, what should you do if you still want to come to MIT?
· Do well in school. Take tough classes.
Interrogate your beliefs and presumptions. Pursue knowledge with dogged
precision. Because it is better to be educated and intelligent than not.
· Be nice. This cannot be
overstated. Don’t be wanton or careless or cruel. Treat those around you with
kindness. Help people. Contribute to your community.
· Pursue your passion. Find what you love, and
do it. Maybe it’s a sport. Maybe it’s an instrument. Maybe it’s research. Maybe
it’s being a leader in your community. Math. Baking. Napping. Hopscotch.
Whatever it is, spend time on it. Immerse yourself in it. Enjoy it.
If
you do these three things, you will be applying sideways to MIT.
See:
If
you get into MIT, it will be because you followed these steps. If you do well
in school, you will be smart and prepared for an MIT education. If you are
nice, then your letters of recommendation will convince us that MIT would be a
wildly better place with you on campus. And if you pursue your passion, you
will have developed a love for and skill at something that helps distinguish
you from other applications – something that is your “hook.”
But
what if you don’t get into MIT?
Well,
you may be disappointed. But you learned everything you could, so now you’re
smarter; you were a positive member of your community, and you made people
happy; and you spent high school doing not what you thought you had to do to
get into a selective college, but what you wanted to do more than anything else
in the world. In other words, you didn’t waste a single solitary second of your
time.
Applying
sideways, as a mantra, means don’t do things because you think they will help
you get into MIT (or Harvard, or CalTech, or anywhere). Instead, you should
study hard, be nice, and pursue your passion, because then you will have spent
high school doing all the rights things, and, as a complete side effect, you’ll
be cast in the best light possible for competitive college admissions.
Sometimes,
you really can have the best of both worlds.
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